Go to your nearest target. Buy a two pack of pushup bras (24$ for 2), and target’s bra inserts (12$). Then go to your nearest Walmart and buy the Vasserette Control Shapewear Panties (2.50 each), they do wonders for helping your tuck. There you go! You just saved yourself a lot of money, you can afford to buy enough to wear every day, and best of all you look fabulous. -@twidx
recs for trans women are so rare on tumblr!! spread this, people.
it seems to me
that our “thank you”s and “excuse me”s
don’t mean much anymore.
when we say
“have a nice day”
often we are just making blank noises
to satisfy a societal requirement
I’d like to make a motion.
Only say these things when you mean them:
when you really do wish someone’s day is pure and kind like they are
when you are truly grateful
When you really are sorry for my loss.
Only say these things
if you are equipped with enough compassion
to ask them honestly
and take in the reply you solicit.
I’d rather you not bait my emotions
with insincere customs.
The thing that I really thought about the most and will for the rest of my life is taking risks that affect other people — that have consequences for other people… [it’s] on my shoulders forever….
And that’s what I can take out of that, as small as that is: to know when enough is enough, to know when to leave, to listen to the people around you — local people who know more about the place than you do. If they say it’s time to go, then go, because if you stay and something happens to them, that’s a horrible, horrible thing that’s not reversible.”
Photojournalist Tyler Hicksnprfreshair)